- November 30, 2013
Nadine Simmons-FritschHi Terresa. I don't know what to say to you. I don't understand how someone comes to a funeral and does not speak to their parents and say I'm sorry for your loss. Especially your father. And I don't understand why you did not come to see your grandma while she was still alive? But you stayed at her place and removed things you were not told you could have. I'm going to be nice and assume you will do the same and return them. That's the right thing to do. There no was no need to leave a note on Josh's truck and upset him. If you wanted to say something to Mike you should have said it to his face. You did this when Sherri passed away by sending your mom that card and letter. Your mom never read it. Jennifer took it to spare her any more pain. You obviously do not want to be part of this family. So please keep it that way. I'm not judging anyone. Common sense says its the right thing to do. You did not even glance your daughters way. Not that she minded. She is an amazing woman and a loving mother. So while you insist your parents abused them and did not raise them right your wrong. You knew that showing up would be painful and cause stress for everyone and you chose to anyway. So please show someone you have some good inside you and send the things back.- December 10, 2013
- Nadine Simmons-FritschI do apologize for accusing you of taking things. I had been given false information.
- Monday
MeNo problem Nadine. It was more than I was expecting them to do. I was looking forward to being ignored and alienated but not confronted at my Grandmother's funeral. That was a new low. I wasn't holding anything against you. I don't put blame on innocent people. I know how their head games work.- Tuesday
- MeNadine I just read the accusations that you made against me. LOL You’re right, everything you were told was a lie. I know you don't want to hear this but since you opened this door, I am going to say this just to set the record straight. There is a truck load of garbage that you don't know about and I have no interest in discussing. I am not going to justify anything I have done. All I am going to say is this; • Nothing I did was directed at the cult of Dianne. For them to assume so is arrogant and paranoid. • My reasons for behaving the way I did towards them are my own and I am entitled to feel any way I see fit. No one has the right to tell me I am wrong. • My life does not revolve around Dianne or that family. I have better things to do with my time than drive 419 mile for 8 hours and pay for a motel so I can torment those paranoid freaks. I avoid them because they are nothing but trouble and I get hurt and bastardized every time I allow them to darken my doorstep. The fact that I am writing this is proof. • Jennifer disowned me just like the rest of them did so I don’t owe them a damned thing. They made the decision to turn their backs on me and disown me. If they don’t like my response to their manipulative tactics, I really don’t care. They made their beds they can lay in them. • The letter I sent to Dianne after Sherri died was at Jennifer’s request and against my better judgment. If you care to know the real truth the poem they claim to be so hurtful is on this page. If you read it you will see why I would send such a despicable poem to Dianne at such a tragic time in her life. http://www.happypublishing.com/spiritualthoughts/storms-bring-out-the-eagles.htm • I made the mistake of going against my better judgment after Sherri died and those assholes bashed me all over Facebook for shit I was not ever guilty of. Many normal people read the poem and the sympathy note I sent Dianne AT JENNIFER’S REQUEST. Not one of them thought it was nasty. In fact everyone, including Sherri’s boyfriend Jeff, thought it was very beautiful and decent of me considering all of the trouble that old witch has caused for me these past 26 yrs. • According to Jeff, Dianne received my letter and used it to bastardize me to him without even reading it. He was smart enough to see through her head games and blew her out of the water. She didn’t know that I saw that shit coming and covered my ass by passing my sympathy letter on to Jeff and a few others who see through that family of trouble makers. Dianne did not get the results she wanted because I was smart enough not to trust any of them to be straight with me and given the ensuing trouble that followed it looks like I was right. So what you heard about that was one sided and total bull shit. What those self-righteous jerks don’t know is that Sherri and I mended fences long before she died but we had to keep it under wraps so Dianne would not interfere. Everything we did publicly was for their benefit to keep them out of our relationship. Sherri hated Dianne worse than I did and her boyfriend Jeff was the one who told me that. You can talk to anyone outside of the cult and they will all tell you the same thing. The things that woman did to my sister was disgusting. • I was asked to stay at my grandmother’s apartment to keep Dianne and her vultures from pillaging and plundering the apartment before the funeral was over. I was at my grandmother’s bedside the day she died but none of them knew because Rae and I slipped in the back door and up to the fourth floor to say good bye even though she had passed two hours before we arrived in Hamilton. • If any one of them had the decency to tell me that my grandmother was in the hospital sooner than the day before she died I would have been there a hell of a lot sooner. I left as soon as I could with the full intention of getting there before she passed so I could say good bye to her. • Unlike my self-righteous ex-family, I was the only one who bothered to stay in touch even though I lived 419 miles away. Not one of those arrogant pricks can say that with a straight face. • So I am sure you can understand my reasons for doing what I did. If you are looking for a monster look at Dianne and her cult. They start the trouble and they play the games. And you wonder why I refuse to acknowledge or associate with any of them.
- MeIt's clear where you got your information from. Everything you accused me of has their toxic stench on it. Be careful who you trust. One day you will realize who the monster is and it won't be me I guarantee that. Watch your back. You have no idea who you are in bed with.
- Terresa PortalI avoided them at the funeral for two reasons. Because of what happened when I reached out to Dianne after Sherri died and because I made a promise to my cousin that I would not respond when one of them tried to start trouble with me at my Grandmother's funeral. As for the note on Josh's truck I thought it was mikes and if Mike had not been so immature and disrespectuful at the funeral none of that would have happened. If those arrogant jerks would look at who started the shit rather than who put a stop to it they wouldn't be so quick to judge. But that requires a spine and the testicular fortitude none of them have.
- Nadine Simmons-FritschTerresa I am not responding to this to carry this conversation on. I know exactly the kind of man who I share a bed with. The past or your family problems are not my business. I sleep with a man who loves me and lately I'm hard to love. He protects me. Keeps me safe. His is my best friend. He does everything he can for me to make me happy. His is a great friend a great father and the love of my life. Is he perfect No. But none of us are. But he is not to blame for his reaction to what he was told. You obviously do not know Mike at all. You can say what you want about your family that's your fight. However when you involve Mike then it becomes my fight. I have too much respect for him to allow you do that and not defend him.
- MeI am glad you feel that way about him. Maybe one day your love can heal the pain he is in and yes you are right. I don't know him and I don't want to know him. Not after the way he treated me at my Grandmother's funeral. I am sure we feel the same way about each other and I am content to keep it that way. I have no problem being disowned by them. It worked out well for me and I am happier than I have ever been. The truth is that things are the way they should be and there is no need to change any of it. They don't want me around and I don't want them in my life. It's all good. I am happy with the life I have and I have no desire to return to a family that hates me. I did not say what I said to start a pissing match and I was not expecting anything from you. You accused me of things I am not guilty of and you painted a horrible picture of me without knowing anything about me. all I did was respond to trhe accusations. Beyond that it's not my problem.
FOOTNOTE: What I find disgusting about this conversation is the audacity of this woman to tell me that I should not have shown up to my Grandmother's funeral and if I were nice I would return everything I took from my Grandmothewr's. She has the audacity to accuse me without knowing the facts. She said my presence hurt the cult. What a fucking joke that is. How do you hurt people who don't like you? This bombastic bitch is going to make a wonderful addition to the cult of Dianne Pateman and her mindless followers.
Who the hell do they think they are assuming that I was there because of them? OMG how arrogant. They walked out on me and my daughter years ago and continue to abuse me and cause trouble when they get the chance. This time I refused to let them in and judging from their reaction to my rejection I made the right decision again. Now that my grandmother's are both dead and I don't talk to anyone in the family I can move on with my life and leave all of this shit behind me.
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